Intentional Relationships Start Here.
Whether you’re single, in love, leading a team, or running an organisation—healthy relationships start with you. We help you build clarity, connection, and intention in every area of your life.
Let’s check in…
You’re single and…
You feel unsure about what you truly want in a partner
You’re frustrated by casual dating or short-lived connections
You struggle to set boundaries in relationships
You’re unsure how to show up as your authentic self on dates
You’re anxious about opening up emotionally with a new partner
You are ready to break patterns that keep attracting the wrong partner
You are hesitant to put yourself out there because of fear of rejection
You’re engaged or in relationship and…
You worry about communicating your needs clearly with your partner
You feel anxious about the pressures and expectations of marriage
You are you struggling to align your values, expectations, and visions for the future
You’re frustrated by arguments that never seem to resolve
You struggle to balance independence with closeness
You want practical tools to navigate challenges together instead of repeating old patterns
You’re a professional or Wedding industry expert and…
You’re struggling to connect with clients in a meaningful way
You are nervous about delivering a talk or workshop that truly resonates
You feel uncertain about how to communicate your value confidently
You want to create a more aligned, intentional, and collaborative workplace
You want guidance on creating meaningful, intentional connections with clients, attendees, or colleagues
Our Philosophy…
We’re on a mission to create a world where people choose love consciously. A happy, thriving relationship isn’t about luck or finding the “perfect” partner—it’s about clarity, self-awareness, and intention. When each person shows up fully as themselves, the relationship becomes a space of growth, support, and deep connection.
We guide couples—and individuals—through practical tools, reflective exercises, and expert coaching to:
Recognize and reset unhelpful patterns
Build trust, empathy, and understanding
Communicate clearly and authentically
Align their values, desires, and visions for the future
How We Help
At It’s You and I, we provide practical tools, guidance, and experiences that help both individuals and couples create the relationships—and the life—they truly want. Whether you’re navigating recurring challenges, preparing for marriage, or wanting to attract conscious love after a break up, we meet you where you are and help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Why It Works
Relationships can feel frustrating, exhausting, and confusing—especially when the same arguments keep repeating, trust has been shaken, or connection feels lost. Most couples don’t need more love—they need clarity, tools, and guidance.
With over 8 years of experience as a psychotherapist and coach, I’ve helped countless individuals and couples move past disconnection and repeated patterns. My work is guided by a simple philosophy: UNDERSTAND, ACCEPT, CHANGE.
Understand: Gain deep awareness of yourself, your patterns, and your relationship dynamics.
Accept: Embrace your authentic self and acknowledge the reality of your relationship without judgment.
Change: Take intentional steps to reset patterns, rebuild trust, and create the connection you truly desire.
By combining proven psychological methods with conscious relationship practices, my approach helps couples shift frustration into understanding, tension into collaboration, and disconnection into closeness.
Our Mission in Action
At It’s You and I, we believe that self-awareness is the foundation of love. When you understand your needs, desires, and patterns, you don’t just improve your relationship—you grow as a person.
Working together with your partner amplifies the transformation: both of you learn to communicate more clearly, align on values, and build a partnership rooted in trust, respect, and purpose.
The result? Couples move from feeling stuck or misunderstood to feeling seen, supported, and truly connected.
Are you tired of the same arguments, feeling unseen, or wondering if the spark will ever come back? You don’t have to navigate it alone.
Whether you’re facing recurring challenges, craving deeper intimacy, or simply want to thrive together, we’re here to guide you.
Choose love intentionally—your relationship deserves it.
And For Leaders, Teams, and Speakers…
Beyond individual and couple support, we partner with professionals and organizations. Our coaching, workshops, and event curation empower teams and speakers to foster connection, clarity, and alignment—both personally and professionally.
“Great relationships are not found, they are created.”
Alexandra, It’s You and I
Book Your Free Relationship Strategy Call and Start Creating Your Dream Relationship Today
For individuals ready to attract conscious love and for couples aiming to reconnect, get a tailored, confidential assessment that highlights your strengths, uncovers growth areas, and guides you toward a joyful, intimate partnership.
