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It’s You and I

Creating a world where we choose love and live with intention.

Welcome to "It's You and I"

A coaching service that fosters intentional and conscious relationships founded by Alexandra Tarr and Mahayla Marriott, London-based Relationship Coaches and Psychotherapists.

Our mission is to strengthen people as they cultivate meaningful connections and lead fulfilling lives. We believe in mindful living. We hold that a fulfilled and happy relationship begins with deeply understanding oneself. Through self-awareness, personal development, and growth, individuals can come together to create a conscious, intentional partnership—a relationship built on purpose, alignment, and mutual respect.

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Our services are designed to help you…

✔ Develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence

✔ Communicate effectively and intentionally

✔ Overcome challenges with grace and confidence

✔ Build a relationship that aligns with your highest vision

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We are Advocates for Conscious Relationships…

We believe that anyone can create purposeful, fulfilling relationships that align with their highest selves. Our specialism is supporting couples in being more conscious and guiding them through significant life transitions together. Our work emphasises self-awareness, effective communication, and the courage to navigate challenges with grace and intention.

At “It’s You and I,” we are committed to empowering our clients to dream bigger, love deeper, and live more intentionally. Whether you're an individual seeking self-discovery or a couple ready to elevate your relationship, we provide a compassionate and transformative space to help you thrive.

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What We Do…

We specialise in helping people cultivate conscious, thriving partnerships through personalised coaching. Whether you’re navigating the early stages of a relationship, cultural differences, preparing for marriage, confronting a new challenge or seeking to deepen your connection, we’re here to guide you with compassion, clarity, and evidence-based strategies.

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Why Work With Us? 

We bring a unique perspective to relationship coaching, blending over 15 years of global experience with extensive training as BACP-registered Psychotherapists and Counsellors. Our work with diverse couples and individuals, coupled with a deep understanding of cultural nuances, makes our approach both holistic and impactful.

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Let’s Get Started… 

Are you ready to take the next step in your journey toward a fulfilling and intentional partnership? We’re here to support you every step of the way. Explore our services, reach out to us, and let’s begin creating the relationship you desire.

HOW DO YOU SHOW UP IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

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